Maia Papaya Brings in the Spring 2010

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Month Eighteen

by Tatiana on August 13, 2010

Dearest Maia,

When someone asks me your age, I’m not sure I’ll answer in months anymore.  You are now one and a half years old.  Seriously.  SERIOUSLY.  It feels like you were never an infant, helpless and still and so endlessly needy; I don’t remember those days as anything other than a haze, as if I dreamed them and they never actually happened.  It makes me miserable to think that these days might end up that way too.  So I try to document everything.

I document you dancing to “Sweet Caroline”.

I document you eating toast in your daddy’s computer chair like a big girl.

I document you being a ninja…

… and sleeping in the car with your big, pouty lips.

You’re so helpful around the house.  Everything we do, you also want to be a part of, whether it’s sweeping the floor (when we give you a little dustpan & brush of your own), cleaning in general (if you get a paper towel, you promptly begin swiping it over the nearest flat surface), or carrying out the garbage.  In fact, let’s talk about that garbage thing a little more.

You see, Maia, this is the month you’ve decided that temper tantrums are a Fabulous Way To Make a Point (your father and I are disinclined to agree with you on this).  You threw a tantrum for well over an hour one day because you wanted the door to the balcony closed when daddy wanted it open.  And then you threw one for forty five minutes because — get this — you couldn’t lift the bag of garbage.  Maia.  MY PAPAYA.  I always make two bags of garbage: one that’s full for me, one that’s a little less full and lighter for you, and we go stomping down the hallway together happily but no, not this day, THIS day, you wanted to carry both of those bags and damned if anything was gonna stop you.  Of course, then something did stop you and it was very, very dramatic, it was cats sleeping with dogs dramatic, and all I could do was try not to laugh at how ridiculous you were being.

Speaking of dogs!  You love ours.  You think they’re the neatest things in the world and you love to love them.  You’re “nice” to them, then you’ll go “Mmmmm,” the way you do when you want to be affectionate and lean down to hug them.  Sometimes you try to pick them up, but that doesn’t go over to well.  You’ll run around the house yelling “DAAH!  DAAH!” and smacking your stomach or thighs when you want to find them.  When you find them, Joss is “DAH!” and Buffy is “DAH-DEH!”  You seriously kill us with the cute.

Something else cute?  You like to do a stompy dance.  In fact, we could say you just like to stomp and that would be pretty accurate.  You’ve taken lately to doing this huge, wide-legged stomp that borders on a split, and tottering around the house that way until you fall on your butt.  You also love Ke$ha’s “Take It Off”, and well, when we combine those two things, we get this:

There’s so much to say about you, Maia.  But at the end of the day, when I think of you, I think of the most beautiful girl in the world, one with an inquisitive, almost intimidating sort of intelligence, who adores life and living and and everything about the world she inhabits.

Including chickens.

All our love,
Mama & Dada

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Maia hearts soccer

by Tatiana on May 26, 2010

Maia loves to play with balls (yeah, I know, the 15 year old boy I apparently harbour in my soul snickered at that too).  When we were at a family dinner recently, she was kinda bored and antsy until she spotted a bouncy ball, at which point she became super-animated and just played with the damned thing all night.  We played Monkey In The Middle with the two other girls who were there — ages 4 and 9.  I held Maia and we were the monkey, and it was honestly a blast.  I don’t know if any of us had ever laughed as hard as we did while playing!

When Maia & I are at home and we head outside to play, I bring a ball with us.  Today, Maia showed me that she’s apparently learned how to play soccer.

It’s crazy how big she’s getting.

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The comfort of coffee

May 12, 2010

Sometimes, we have perfect mornings together.  I want to remember them.
I know she won’t.
Today, as she shovelled Cheerios into her mouth, I put my coffee down on the table beside her.  As usual, she stopped to look at it, and although she’s learned not to put her fingers in it, she likes to lean close [...]

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Connecticut

April 16, 2010

After visiting my mother-in-law in Florida, we flew back to Connecticut to see my family.  Our flight got in at 11:45pm and we weren’t back to her house until an hour later, which meant that poor Maia didn’t get to sleep until 1:30am and then ended up sleeping really badly for the next few nights [...]

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Month Fourteen

April 13, 2010

Dear Maia,
This has been a crazy busy month for all of us.  The weather’s begun to look and feel like spring, and we have been making the most of it.  I’m constantly struck by how different — and wonderful — this year is as opposed to last; last year at this time you couldn’t even [...]

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Florida

April 10, 2010

In a strange twist of fate, shortly after I moved in with Chris and began pursuing my Canadian residency, his mother fell for an American, moved to Florida, and began pursuing her US residency. Regardless, we see her a few times a year, but at the end of March we brought Maia down to Florida [...]

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First Birthday!

February 16, 2010
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Month Twelve

February 13, 2010

Dear Maia,
Beautiful.
That is the word that comes to mind whenever I think of you.  And while it is so often a comment on your physical state — your shining, dark eyes, your long, narrow limbs, your perfect round belly — you embody beauty in every way.
Spiritually, you are radiant.  The unadulterated joy in you find [...]

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Books & Trickery

January 29, 2010

Maia loves to be read to.  It’s not uncommon for her to take a book in both hands, run over to me, and plop her butt in my lap, all the while babbling.  She particularly likes turning the pages for me — sometimes before I’m ready for them to be turned! And although I adore [...]

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Month Eleven

January 13, 2010

Dear Maia,
Today you turn eleven months old, and all I can think is how young that seems.  When I think of you, I think of a kid; when I think of an eleven month old, I think of a baby.  But you’re not.  You walk, talk, interact; you have a distinct personality, you know what [...]

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